Loving You I wasn’t able to look myself in the eyes in the mirror and say, “I love you, Walter”. Most of us seem to find that difficult. Psychologists, psychiatrists, and healers recommend doing this as a way to solidify loving yourself, which is the foundation for being truly happy,
Bring Out Her Best – For The Love You Want How? Emotional intimacy! Persons who identify as female have a vital need to be truly seen and heard, more so than males. So, listen to her with your heart, listen to her with love, and FEEL her emotions. When she
Bring Out His Best – For The Love You Want How? Reward! Persons who identify as male tend to get most excited for 2 things (besides money): 1. Mommy love – that unconditional “you’re amazing, I love you so much!” And, 2. Sexual attention. When he pleases you, or if
Want Him To Stay? In relationships a person who identifies as male needs 3 vital things from you: 1. Do not be a coach Males want to be your hero, want to fix things. Females usually are smarter, wiser, in relationships, so they tend to coach. Unless he’s paying you
Want Her To Stay? In relationships a person who identifies as female needs 3 vital things from you: 1. To be truly seen and heard. For thousands of years females’ contributions haven’t been acknowledged. So, females have a far greater need to have their good qualities really be seen, and
An Epic Amazing Life! Eleven years after World War 2, half my city in Germany was still bombed-out shells of buildings, we were poor. I was sexually abused as a child. At 5 years old I was sent to an orphanage, and later adopted by a physically abusive American military
You’re Psychic Too If you were created in the Image and Likeness of The Creator, who is all-knowing, you can also be all-knowing, psychic. When you get psychic insight, believe the first thing. Heather’s brother Tommy had died the night before. When I asked Tommy’s spirit for 3 things to
Is Forgiveness Hard For You? My client, we’ll her call Emily, was severely abused physically and sexually as a child. She was not able to forgive her abusers! Emily felt that forgiving them was like saying that what they did was ok. It was not ok! I encouraged Emily to
Can’t stand yourself? Then neither can anybody else. You want somebody to believe you’re amazing, when you’re in love. But if you don’t love yourself exactly the way you are, when somebody says you’re amazing you’ll be inclined to think that they’re manipulating you, or that they’re stupid, because you
The End? Go With Love. Susan took my advice to leave with love, and now has a beautiful new relationship. By not closing her heart in anger, she stayed open to new love. If you feel you’ve tried everything, but your partner still disrespects you, and hurts you, and makes
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