“Don’t take #life too #seriously, you’ll never get out of it #alive!” Elbert Hubbard wrote that in the 1800’s. I’ve been #connecting clients with #departed #loved ones for 20 years. I ask the departed for 3 things from their time together, to prove it is the client’s loved one, so
#Regret is useless!! And it is very self #destructive! We say things like, “I was so damn #stupid!!” No you weren’t!! The ONLY reason you now have the #life #experience and the #wisdom to know that #decision did not work for you, is because you chose it! Be #proud of
Meanings of #repeated #numbers, like #symbols in #dreams, are unique to each person. Websites, books, will usually give you vastly different #meanings of repeated numbers. For me, besides the #FEELINGS I get, the #message is, which number is being repeated, and what’s the total. 111. Adding digits equals 3,
If you #suppress #feelings or #memories, your automatic #subconcious #responses will tend to #control your #life in #destructive ways. You can NOT have control over something that you don’t acknowledge even exists!! So, your suppressed memories, and specifically your #intense feelings about these memories, will control YOU! Without actually
In #relationships #female types and #male types are quite different, according to #psychology #research. Female #identities have three main #needs: 1. Be really #seen – and #heard – to have their #feelings acknowledged 2. Be really #understood – from her #perspective, not yours! Females want you to #listen, #understand,
#Female types and #male types, whichever one you #identify with as being, #think, and solve #problems, very differently, still like our #ancient #ancestors! Back then, males were the #hunters, did that #alone, focused on #action, saying nothing until the problem is solved. Females were the gatherers, caretakers, did that in
One of the things I have #learned in my #work is that it takes about 10 times more #energy to #suppress your #emotional #hurt, than it does to #express it, to #cry. All of us have only so much energy to use every #day. If we are spending a tremendous
I have heard it often – I’m so #mad at #myself! How is that going to #help you?! When someone is mad at you, does it make you feel #good? Make you feel #supported and #strong? Probably it makes you feel #horrible, #weak, #rejected, #unloved. It absolutely will NOT help
Now. The only time that I was ever deeply in #love, it was #now. The only time I ever had fantastic #fun, it was now. The only #time that I ever truly had my #power, it was now. The only time that I ever really #laughed my ass off,
We all make #assumptions. Most of us know on some level that’s not a good idea! And, in #relationships we tend to #assume the #worst!! Because of our #insecurity and #fear, we make things up to be upset about. Since we make assumptions anyway, if you want a #happy
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