If you have to leave your relationship, go with love. If you’ve experienced too many things from them that made you feel awful about yourself, or worse; if you haven’t found any way for peace between you, no matter what you’ve tried; if your heart tells you that the only
Childhood sexual abuse destroys the child emotionally and is very twisted, because, statistically, 80% of the time the perpetrator is a parent or a loved one. So, the child feels love, even sexual arousal, but is being controlled and manipulated, and it becomes a deep dark secret they can never
Your emotions are your ultimate source of power! Biologically, your energy comes from the cells in your body. But the energy in your cells has to come from somewhere, and that resource is your emotions! Your happiness is your power!! When you’re depressed, you don’t even have the energy to
Many of us grew up being #judged and #criticized regularly and #harshly by our #parents and #siblings. Whatever we’re most #familiar with, is our #comfort zone, even if that’s awful stuff. So, when we #talk about #ourselves, and talk to ourselves, our #subconscious #habit is to say every one of
Synchronicity. Clients sometimes ask me, “what the hell is that?!” Psychiatrist Carl Jung invented the term, calling it “#circumstances that appear meaningfully related yet lack a causal #connection”. I see #synchronicity as the product of lots of #thought, often about a #person, which results in that person reaching out to you, or even
At the #beginning of #relationships, we are #thrilled, we freely #give #love and #admiration, #passionately, and #often! I love you!! Later, the day comes when something in our lover’s #life gets the better of them, and they’re not able to be passionately #expressive. For many of us, that’s when #childhood
NLP has a #powerful 3-second #technique for #connecting to #Spirit, for feeling #power!! The #Peripheral #Vision Technique. It’s one of my favorites because it’s so #effective, and it’s very hard to take yourself too #seriously saying “Peripheral”. #Life is much #happier and #fun, when we don’t take ourselves too seriously.
“Don’t take #life too #seriously, you’ll never get out of it #alive!” Elbert Hubbard wrote that in the 1800’s. I’ve been #connecting clients with #departed #loved ones for 20 years. I ask the departed for 3 things from their time together, to prove it is the client’s loved one, so
#Regret is useless!! And it is very self #destructive! We say things like, “I was so damn #stupid!!” No you weren’t!! The ONLY reason you now have the #life #experience and the #wisdom to know that #decision did not work for you, is because you chose it! Be #proud of
Getting #closure after a #relationship #breakup is entirely up to YOU. If you need your ex to verify that they actually did #love you and weren’t just saying so, to #validate that they really did see you as #beautiful, to assure you that they actually did #admire things about
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