Synchronicity. Clients sometimes ask me, “what the hell is that?!” Psychiatrist Carl Jung invented the term, calling it “#circumstances that appear meaningfully related yet lack a causal #connection”. I see #synchronicity as the product of lots of #thought, often about a #person, which results in that person reaching out to you, or even
At the #beginning of #relationships, we are #thrilled, we freely #give #love and #admiration, #passionately, and #often! I love you!! Later, the day comes when something in our lover’s #life gets the better of them, and they’re not able to be passionately #expressive. For many of us, that’s when #childhood
NLP has a #powerful 3-second #technique for #connecting to #Spirit, for feeling #power!! The #Peripheral #Vision Technique. It’s one of my favorites because it’s so #effective, and it’s very hard to take yourself too #seriously saying “Peripheral”. #Life is much #happier and #fun, when we don’t take ourselves too seriously.
“Don’t take #life too #seriously, you’ll never get out of it #alive!” Elbert Hubbard wrote that in the 1800’s. I’ve been #connecting clients with #departed #loved ones for 20 years. I ask the departed for 3 things from their time together, to prove it is the client’s loved one, so
#Regret is useless!! And it is very self #destructive! We say things like, “I was so damn #stupid!!” No you weren’t!! The ONLY reason you now have the #life #experience and the #wisdom to know that #decision did not work for you, is because you chose it! Be #proud of
Meanings of #repeated #numbers, like #symbols in #dreams, are unique to each person. Websites, books, will usually give you vastly different #meanings of repeated numbers. For me, besides the #FEELINGS I get, the #message is, which number is being repeated, and what’s the total. 111. Adding digits equals 3,
If you #suppress #feelings or #memories, your automatic #subconcious #responses will tend to #control your #life in #destructive ways. You can NOT have control over something that you don’t acknowledge even exists!! So, your suppressed memories, and specifically your #intense feelings about these memories, will control YOU! Without actually
In #relationships #female types and #male types are quite different, according to #psychology #research. Female #identities have three main #needs: 1. Be really #seen – and #heard – to have their #feelings acknowledged 2. Be really #understood – from her #perspective, not yours! Females want you to #listen, #understand,
#Female types and #male types, whichever one you #identify with as being, #think, and solve #problems, very differently, still like our #ancient #ancestors! Back then, males were the #hunters, did that #alone, focused on #action, saying nothing until the problem is solved. Females were the gatherers, caretakers, did that in
One of the things I have #learned in my #work is that it takes about 10 times more #energy to #suppress your #emotional #hurt, than it does to #express it, to #cry. All of us have only so much energy to use every #day. If we are spending a tremendous
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