At the #beginning of #relationships, we are #thrilled, we freely #give #love and #admiration, #passionately, and #often! I love you!!
Later, the day comes when something in our lover’s #life gets the better of them, and they’re not able to be passionately #expressive.
For many of us, that’s when #childhood #insecurity takes over, and we #freak out, and think, “Don’t you love me any more?!
When we become #insecure, we are always #self-protective, and #self-absorbed, and then we tend to act as if our #partner #OWES us their love.
That will NOT #open your lover’s #heart!
Be #grateful for every #beautiful #moment you’ve had #together. Say, “I’m #here. I’m l#istening.” Then #wait, be #patient, #loving, #understand THEIR #perspective.
That WILL open your lover’s heart, and YOURS too!
And, then other #delicious things might just #happen.
