A #happy #relationship requires focus on #giving, instead of #getting.
My recent focus was, “what if you devastate me?”, and I pulled back. She’s #uncertain, so I closed my #heart for #protection. That #hurt her deeply.
Then I realized #closing my heart for protection is all about what I can GET!
At first, we #GIVE #love and #admiration #passionately. But, later, when we’re crazy in love, we pull back whenever there’s #uncertainty, to avoid being #hurt.
THIS – makes relationship work:
Give love. Always.
But always giving, takes tremendous #courage, so Courage is #1.
2. #Faith – that always giving makes you #irrresistible
Faith that you being irresistible will #attract the right person, if not this one.
3. Give love the way you want to be loved. Always.