Want Her To Stay? In relationships a person who identifies as female needs 3 vital things from you: 1. To be truly seen and heard. For thousands of years females’ contributions haven’t been acknowledged. So, females have a far greater need to have their good qualities really be seen, and
Does He/She Really Love You? (Some Ways To Know) Is there… …frequent loved-filled eye contact? …always love in speech and deed? …a strong spiritual connection? …more sexual excitement than ever? …listening with their whole heart? …freedom to be yourself, your way?
Lovingly enfold Little YOU on your lap. Smell her/his hair, skin, hear her breathing. FEEL how precious, innocent Little YOU just wants to BE LOVED! Say, “I love you, Little Me (your name).” “You’ll never be alone again, Little Me.” “I love you, Little Me.”
FEMALE types, MALE types THINK very differently. Still like our ancient ANCESTORS! FEMALES were gatherers, CARETAKERS – did that in groups. FEMALE groups would TALK, talk, talk… – until a solution appeared. MALES were the HUNTERS – did that usually alone. MALES were about ACTION – were SILENT until problem
Gratitude is the antidote to emotional pain. And the antidote to fear. And it is absolutely the magic for a happy relationship. If you’re in pain because someone hurt you, being grateful for things you love about them, for nice things they’ve done, actually makes you feel loved in that
Synchronicity. Clients sometimes ask me, “what the hell is that?!” Psychiatrist Carl Jung invented the term, calling it “#circumstances that appear meaningfully related yet lack a causal #connection”. I see #synchronicity as the product of lots of #thought, often about a #person, which results in that person reaching out to you, or even
In #relationships #female types and #male types are quite different, according to #psychology #research. Female #identities have three main #needs: 1. Be really #seen – and #heard – to have their #feelings acknowledged 2. Be really #understood – from her #perspective, not yours! Females want you to #listen, #understand,
#Female types and #male types, whichever one you #identify with as being, #think, and solve #problems, very differently, still like our #ancient #ancestors! Back then, males were the #hunters, did that #alone, focused on #action, saying nothing until the problem is solved. Females were the gatherers, caretakers, did that in
One of the things I have #learned in my #work is that it takes about 10 times more #energy to #suppress your #emotional #hurt, than it does to #express it, to #cry. All of us have only so much energy to use every #day. If we are spending a tremendous
Now. The only time that I was ever deeply in #love, it was #now. The only time I ever had fantastic #fun, it was now. The only #time that I ever truly had my #power, it was now. The only time that I ever really #laughed my ass off,
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