I have heard it often – I’m so #mad at #myself! How is that going to #help you?! When someone is mad at you, does it make you feel #good? Make you feel #supported and #strong? Probably it makes you feel #horrible, #weak, #rejected, #unloved. It absolutely will NOT help
We all make #assumptions. Most of us know on some level that’s not a good idea! And, in #relationships we tend to #assume the #worst!! Because of our #insecurity and #fear, we make things up to be upset about. Since we make assumptions anyway, if you want a #happy
A #happy #relationship requires focus on #giving, instead of #getting. My recent focus was, “what if you devastate me?”, and I pulled back. She’s #uncertain, so I closed my #heart for #protection. That #hurt her deeply. Then I realized #closing my heart for protection is all about what I
What is #love? I believe it’s another aspect of what the Chinese call #Chi, or #life force #energy. In the Bible it says “God is love”, so, love is #God. To me, love is #spiritual #connection. I have found that when I #connect with someone #emotionally I connect #spiritually,
WANT to keep your #relationship #exciting??! Then – Always #attract!!! Always do what you did at the #beginning!! You showed your #best side, your #nicest self, saw the best in them, and you showed them, “I #like you!!” Keep seeing everything you fell in #love with, praise them frequently
“How do I love and accept me?”, is a question you’ve probably asked yourself! One way is to say thank you to your inner child, to 5-year-old you, to say “I love you” to your inner child, to make your inner child feel appreciated, and let them know
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