You Want Closure?
Getting closure after a relationship breakup is entirely up to YOU.
If you need your ex to verify that they actually did love you and weren’t just saying so, to validate that they really did see you as beautiful, to assure you that they actually did admire things about you, then you will likely never find closure because your ex still has most or all of your power.
In that case, you’re ignoring the fact that you were probably never certain that they loved you, never sure if they saw you as actually beautiful, never felt genuinely admired by them, while you were together.
Do not give that person the power to determine that you are inadequate, or not lovable, not beautiful, not admirable! Most likely they do NOT actually know you because they never took the time!!
Closure happens when we accept that we were not feeling secure, not feeling loved, not having much fun, and now we get our power back!
